Anjelika, if it didn't get serious between you and him .. count yourself lucky!! If you slept with him.. get yourself checked. This man convinced me he wanted a future with me and yet I was stupid enough to never question why I had never be invited fully into his life. I wasted nearly two years of my life on him. All along there were several other woman that he was seeing and some of who he was telling the same story to about a stalker [which was all a bloody lie - the stalkers are the women desperate to get an answer from him as why he just disappears out fo their lives], about wanting to have a baby, about knowing him like no other...
And all the while pretending to be a perfect gentleman. He has been cruel and from the stories I have been told, when he decided the other women were getting too close to finding him out he stopped taking their calls, answering their e.mails or txt messages as if he had dropped of the face of the earth. I only know of 6 other woman all of who he cheated on me with. I can't beleive I was so stupid and couldn't see it. I'm a damn senior accountant for a major firm for Gods sake!! And he did all this knowing I had been hurt in the past and didn't want any further drama in my life!!
The first person he started seeing was in Jan 07, 2nd in Mch 08, 3rd in April 08, 4th in April 08, 5th in May 08, 6th in Aug 08, 7th in Oct 08. One lasted 6 mths, another 4 mths, and the rest 1 mth. All seen at the same time as me!! I can't believe it all. God knows how many others this year!!!! I'm still trying to take it all in!!
Im sorry to dump on you like that but .... Regards. .....
His work e.mail has been changed. One woman he saw seems to be even more hurt than I am...
Sent: 12 April 2009 17:15
To: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
I have nothing more to say... When you decide to start telling the truth then maybe I will listen. Untill then... leave me alone!!
From: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
Date: Sun, 12 Apr 2009 17:07:49 +0100
To:
I was. Our communication may not be good but I thought of you as my Girlfriend. But now I guess you believe others and not me.
So I guess you wont tell me who is telling you this stuff about me…. I told you there is a nut case women who stalks me. I have a police report out on her. I would just love to know if it is the same person so I can take this to the police too… Will you tell me?
From: ...
Sent: 12 April 2009 16:04
To: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
like you gave me clarity..... how long have you known me Andrew? Why do this to me. You know how much I love you!! Were you ever mine?
From: Andrew.Leonard@northagtearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
Date: Sun, 12 Apr 2009 16:57:57 +0100
To:
Told by? I think you at least owe me clarity please..... who told you and what did they say
From:...
Sent: 12 April 2009 15:53
To: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
I have been told that you are a 'great F**K'!! Unfortunately, I have to agree. I never wanted to go down this road. I want to keep my memories of you as I thought they were, loving and respectful. I wanted my relationship with you to be so much more than that. As much as I would want otherwise, things will never change. Like I said, we have had this conversation time and time again. Now I know why you always were unavailable to me. I thought I did know you... I was wrong. I thought you wanted a future for us... I was wrong and I thought you wanted children with me. You said I was the only one that you would ever consider having children with... I was wrong!! To think that it might have happened!!
From: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
Date: Sun, 12 Apr 2009 16:47:15 +0100
To:
You know more about me than anyone on earth. I have been open with You…. You are wrong about this….
Just because I'm not always around, you don’t trust me !!! Please ……………
From:
Sent: 12 April 2009 15:34
To: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
I know you are lying to me. I love you but I can't do this anymore. Enough is enough. Have the decency to at least now tell the truth!!
From: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
Date: Sun, 12 Apr 2009 16:08:32 +0100
To:
u think I am lying to you?
From:
Sent: 12 April 2009 15:06
To: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
What would really make me happy... how about the truth?
From: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
Date: Sun, 12 Apr 2009 13:58:51 +0100
To:
want to clear up a couple of points…
You have always been enough for me.
How can I make you feel better? What would I need to do to make you feel happy? I told you about moving in together as a solution. I told you I am ready and want to have children with you. But what is it that would really make you happy?
You don’t think I am sorry? Or know how too… Wow this saddens me to think you think this way of me. I am a very soft person inside.
Gve me direction if you think we have any chance. That is all I need baby, please….
Your Andrew x
From:
Sent: 12 April 2009 12:21
To: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: Julie
How can your work change Andrew and how can you make me feel better. Its not your work. You will always make me feel as if I have been abandoned. I don't think you know how to feel sorry. I wish you did. I will always have feelings for you but I know things will never change. It will never be enough for you. Again I wish it had been. I'm sorry. Julie.
From: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: RE: Julie
Date: Sun, 12 Apr 2009 10:01:51 +0100
To:
OK as you wish.
I must say though I am upset as I have always thought you were the girl for me. I know my work sucks but this can change. I am sorry for the way I made you feel. I truly am.
I hope that in time, if you still have feelings for me you can pick up the phone and call me. I will always be here for you. Just let me know if you change your mind.
All my best wishes and prayers are for you
Your Andrew xxx
From:
Sent: 12 April 2009 00:23
To: Andrew.Leonard@northgatearinso.com
Subject: Julie
I really am sorry! Please don't call me. I don't think it would have ever worked. As I said you always left me feeling alone. You seem to have been a busy man over the past year and a half. I'm glad we never did have a child now. It would have been so wrong with you. As I said, I just want to be single now. I can't give you what you want. Take care. Julie
To: andrewcharlesleonard@hotmail.co.uk
Subject: FW: Andrew Leonard - FW: Hi Bubbly
Date: Wed, 29 Apr 2009 08:30:43 +0100
Andrew,
Here is the email i received on Monday... I wonder how my email address end up with that woman the day after i gave it to you ????
The email completely down below that you sent to "Bubbly" is the exact replicate to the one you sent me a year ago.... It just sounds that you've been caught and made these women very angry....!!!!
You know what, your life seems very complicated and i don't do complication.... I don't want to be involve in a cat fight, cheat, lies, etc etc ...!!!
It took me years to get myself where i am, which is complication free... Right now my life is great...i like my job... love the people i care about... have fun and a laugh with my friends when i get the time.... travel when i can... etc...
I don't know if i want to call you yet... there's too much confusion around you and the feeling of not knowing what this is all about... You told me in one of your message on facebook that i can ask any questions... so, you tell me what is this all about??? why did you get back in touch with me again??? what do you want or expect from me??? What are you looking for??? Friendship, love or add another woman on your list ??????
May be if i can get some honest answers to these questions then i will probably know where to go from there.... But you are not oblige to answer it's all up to you to know if it's worth being honest or not...!!!
Anyway got to go, got a busy day ahead of me. I'm not working but have so much things to do.. got my flight ticket yesterday in the post, now i feel like i'm definitely going... 3 more weeks... woo hoo!!!!!!!
Take care
lena
From:
To:
Subject: Andrew Leonard - FW: Hi Bubbly
Date: Mon, 27 Apr 2009 00:42:31 +0000
Obviously I'm not but you know that. Zabine at least was clever enough to spot the problem.... Wish I had been. I know what I need to know now so I wish you all the best. Take care and hope you find or are lucky enough to have found honest partners who treat you with the respect you all deserve in your lives. Hopefully those who have been hurt will learn to trust again at some point in time. It would be a pity otherwise.
Best Wishes.
From:
To: andrewcharlesleonard@hotmail.com
Subject: Re: Hi Bubbly
Date: Fri, 01 Aug 2008 03:03:51 +0200
hellow how are you
is a long time sorry
you send me a mail in july i send a picture
to reminder i live in paris and i m franco brazilian and you where do you live?
see you
anny
----- Original Message -----
From: Andrew Leonard
To: anny
Sent: Monday, June 02, 2008 7:07 PM
Subject: Hi Bubbly
Hello Bubbly,
Here are the pictures you wanted. I hope you like them and you don't throw yourself on the floor in laughter.......
What are you looking for on this site? I am looking for a serious relationship as I am not a game player and the free time I have, I don't want to waist it.
If you like my profile and pictures, it would be good to chat or even meet up and learn more about each other. Spark is important to me so face to face is always better but will see what you think.
Hope to hear from you soon,
Andrew xxx